Preparation for receiving the sacraments of Confirmation and first Holy Communion comes with continued learning and formation in living life as a fully initiated Catholic. The typical age children receive their Confirmation and first Holy Communion in the Diocese of Portland is 7 years old, or the age of reason. Our diocese is one of an increasing number of dioceses in the United States that have children confirmed immediately before receiving Holy Communion for the first time, which is sometimes called "restored order."
The Diocese of Portland requires a two-year preparation program for children receiving these sacraments. Children will be prepared according to the guidelines established by the Pastor, Father Seamus Griesbach.
What do these two years of preparation look like? In the Portland Peninsula and Island Parishes, children go through 1st and 2nd year of sacrament preparation, usually corresponding to first and second graders. This is offered during the academic year on Sundays from 11 am - 12:30 pm at the Cathedral and on Wednesdays from 3 pm - 5 pm at the Cathedral Guild Hall. Families will select to have their child(ren) participate in Sundays OR Wednesdays. Additionally, there are four sacrament preparation retreats each year that children will participate in to reflect and prepare to receive the sacraments. Children in Catholic schools are encouraged to come to Sundays or Wednesdays as well, and continue to learn and build relationships with their parish. Catholic school students are required to attend the sacrament preparation retreats for both the first and second year of sacrament preparation.
First Penance, or the first reception of the Sacrament of Reconcilliation (confession), takes place prior to the reception of Confirmation and first Holy Communion. Children prepare for confession in classes as well as during the sacrament preparation retreat that takes place during the Lenten season.
What if...
Your child is older than 2nd grade but has not received Confirmation and first Holy Communion? Your child would work alongside peers or those of similar age to prepare to receive the sacraments. This would be a two-year long process for children between the ages of 8 and 12 years old. If your child is 13 years or older, he or she would participate in youth ministry and prepare to receive the sacraments at the bishop's annual celebration of Confirmation and first Holy Communion for teens and adults.
Your child is not baptized yet? If your child is over 7 years old and unbaptized, he or she would follow an individualized preparation that includes classes and various ritual celebrations [Rite of Acceptance into the Catechumenate and Rite of Election]. This is usually a year-long process.
Your child was baptized and received first Holy Communion but did not receive the Sacrament of Confirmation? Families that move to the Diocese of Portland from another diocese may have received first Holy Communion, but not Confirmation yet. In most cases, children or youth will participate in faith formation classes with their peers, attend sacrament preparation retreats, and then be confirmed with their peers. Confirmation for children would happen at the same time as their peers who are receiving Confirmation and first Holy Communion. Confirmation for teens occurs at the bishop's celebration of Confirmation for teens and adults.
Your child was baptized in a non-Catholic Church? Children and youth who will become Catholic are candidates for full communion with the Catholic Church. Their preparation to become Catholic and receive Confirmation and first Holy Communion will follow an individualized process. This will typically take one year and includes a celebration of the Profession of Faith and reception of the sacraments during the Easter Season.
A person preparing to be confirmed is to be given a sponsor who asssts the baptized person to lead a Christian life and faithfully live his or her baptism and confirmation. The Church requires that a sponsor:
Be at least 16 years of age.
Be a fully initiated Catholic (must have received all three sacraments of initation: baptism, confirmation, and Eucharist)
Be a practicing Catholic who leads a life of faith necessary to fulfill the responsibility of being a sponsor. This includes going to Mass every Sunday and on Holy Days of Obligation, living a lifestyle that is based on the teaching of Christ, and if married, married according to the laws of the Catholic Church (married by a Catholic priest or with official permission to be married outside of the Catholic Church). If single, not cohabitating (living together in a sexual relationship without marriage).
Not be the parent to the candidate.
Understands and accepts the responsibility of being a sponsor: paying special attention to the candidate and his/her efforts to live a Catholic life that reflects the spirit and teaching of the Catholic Church, and assist his/her parents by support, encouragement, and prayer.
A sponsor can be the same person as a Godparent at baptism. The link to the sponsor form can be found below.